Tuesday, February 02, 2010

Dead and gone?



I have this sudden urge to start ranting.

The topic?

Platonic relationships. Is it dead and gone?

Are there really no such thing as platonic relationships?

So now, girls cannot befriend a guy and likewise?

I am totally amazed and agog at this misconception.

WTF.

Seriously, wtf.

Me, for once am very upset about this whole issue.

See, i have this online buddy all the way from down under.

Heck, right now at this very moment, he is right here in sunny SG.

Welcome to Singapore, Adrian!

So anyways, i'm pretty upset that people are chiding me for wanting to meet up with this buddy of mine.

What is so wrong in meeting this buddy of mine whom i've gotten to know from Tagged days?

And no, he did not come to SG just to solely meet me.

He is here on a holiday and has been wanting to come here. And he has many friends here so it is really a good time to visit isn't it?

I was telling my colleague the other day about Adrian coming over and i was bracing myself to be lectured by her. But it never came. And thank god!
She, a forty something year old woman can keep an open mind about it, what about those half her age?

Like i can't talk care of myself!

Very, very pissed can?

*sigh*

I will still be meeting him up for dinner or something one of these days before he heads back to Aussie. That, i can promise you.

I mean, yes, of course it is not wrong to talk to the opposite sex.

Heck, in Facebook, there's this application titled, "Just because i talk to the opposite sex, doesn't mean i'm flirting".

I second to that.

What is so wrong in talking to the opposite sex?

At the end of the day, you, yourself should know your boundaries.

You, yourself should know what is right or wrong.

You, yourself should know when to stop.

TRUST is the most important thing to have in a relationship.

And by relationship is not just bf/gf. Its fiance/fiancee, husband/wife, brother/sister, sister/sister, mother/daughter etc.

You catch my drift?

Without trust, misconception will occur.

And when misconception occur, fights will outbreak.

So, lesson here, ladies and gentlemen, trust is the key to every relationship.
And if trust is there, platonic relationship won't be buried alive.


@ 7:16 PM